XPLOZUR – DO IT BIG OR STAY IN BED

Deux Process ft. Young Rook – “Story of My Life” from Jordan Abrantes (SHAKEE) on Vimeo.

8/9 in this hectic world we are living in we find our selves more often not making the effort to have each day a certain amount of time for our family. This week I got to have a kick back day with my big bro that was full of great times and a lot of great advise. One of them got me thinking a lot and still is on my mind. He asked me “How much time do you spend with your mother and father every day?” Honestly I won’t even try to beat around the bushes I only see my mom when I pass through the house and my father I work with every day and we see each other at the office. What I mean to say he got me thinking about not making it the first priority of my time to make sure I spend a good amount of it with my parents. Many of us are blessed to still have our parents in our lives and many of us would not have much of a life without them so make sure you make an effort to find some time each day if possible to spend with your mom or dad or both.
That being say I’m going to get ready for today and spend it with my parents. Have a great day everyone.

Respect; the one asset we work for a very long time with
very hard effort yet at risk to be lost in a second of time if not protected
right. Most of us earn it, some lucky ones receive it with believe that they
are worth it, than again others demand it and will stop at nothing to force it
out of you. Just like anything in life that you want to belong rightfully to
you respect has to be earned by your good deeds yet some trust that every deed
they perform has to be respected. For those of you that think that way I have
one question; have you ever stopped and thought trough that the deed you are
performing is actually disrespecting you instead of gaining you respect from
others? None of us can expect respect from others if we have no respect for ourselves.
As the saying goes; do unto others as you would to be done unto you, well than
why not treat yourself as you would want others to treat you. Next time you
interact with people stop for a second and look how you are acting in your own
skin and then how people are acting towards you. True only GOD can truly Judge
you but remember we as people have the power of choice and with that, one can
decided if you fit the group or not.

I have literally bin living the rock star life for the past few months. From lavishing and insane parties to living in some of the most luxurious homes and staying in some of the most extravagant hotels as well as driving some of the cars some of us have as dreams and some that money can’t even buy for there one of status. Am I grateful for that? You beet your behind I am but to tell you the truth only a few times with in all this time I spent that time with people worthy to be called friends and family. To some the life is a dream yet if experienced with the wrong crowd no amount of money and luxury can make it fun. I wish everyone the same experience I had so you can be a judge for yourself but my idea of true wealth is to enjoy good times with the people I love with a glass of water than a bottle of Louis XIII. Be careful who you pop bottles with, life is about way more than the luxurious rock star life style. My question to you is; Would you give up life long lasting happiness for 30 minutes of fun, fame, and fortune?

ONE.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE.
Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR.
When you say, “I love you,” mean it.

FIVE.
When you say, “I’m sorry,” look the person in the eye.

SIX.
Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN.
Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT.
Never laugh at anyone’s dream. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.

NINE.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.

TEN.
In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN.
Don’t judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE.
Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN.
When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, “Why do you want to know?”

FOURTEEN.
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk..

FIFTEEN.
Say “bless you” when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN.
When you lose, don’t lose the lesson

SEVENTEEN.
Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN.
Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN.
When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY.
Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE.
Spend some time alone.